sorry, your mentioning of the notebook reminded me how hot that girl in it is. You were writing something about violence... or something?

actually, I think you're totally write. violence is A-Okay but sex is totally taboo. People are freaking weird.
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On 07/01/2013 at 07:31 PM by Blake Turner See More From This User » |

The recent refusal of classification in regards to two games in Australia has lead me to believe that society is doomed. This is not because of freedom of speech issues, although that is certainly disappointing. I am more concerned with societies hatred of anything sexual and it's glorification of violence, and how such a disturbingly acceptable truth bleeds into gaming as a whole.
It seems gaming is now what films were in the 80's. Films in the action genre were blood-soaked visions of carnage that rivaled most horror films in terms of content. There were buckets of blood in damn near every action flick, as that was the trend. Gaming is currently following that same trend. I honestly believe that we'll break away from that sometime soon, but for now it's just something we have to live with.
However, while we have the gore of that era in gaming, it seems we aren't "allowed" to have the sex.Mass Effect came under attack because of a sex scene that wasn't any more explicit than the intimacy displayed in The Notebook (a movie that is rated PG in Australia, meaning a minor can buy it without a parent or guardian, and it can be shown in a 6:30 timeslot.) Yet, if you put such tame content in a game, all of a sudden people go insane. We're a bit more lenient now — as The Witcher 2 showed me more vaginas than the first season of Game of Thrones — but the road to maturity is a long and aggravating one, as Steam's recent banning of a sexually-oriented game indicates.
I don't agree with banning games with sexual content.
However, sex in entertainment is rarely ever interesting to watch, while combat is almost always interesting. Most sex scenes in films strike me as pointless. Too much information, and rarely relevent to the plot or themes. It's about as interesting to watch and relevant as other, private physical processes like the character taking a shit or shaving. I no more need to see which positions they prefer than I do how they apply shaving cream or whether they wipe front to back or back to front. It's banality.
The sex scenes in Game of Thrones are always relevant to the plot. You ever been watching that show and wanting to skip an awkward sex scene, but you can't because you know you'll miss a ton of really important information? DAMN YOU GAME OF THRONES!!!!
I agree that most of the time it is pointless. However the times that it does work are worth keeping, and banning them outright is stupid.
It's like that everywhere. For example, say I'm walking to blockbuster and someone asks me "Ben, what movie are you going to rent?" Even if I reply with "Hostel," or "Hills have eyes 2." Noone will react strangely. They will just think "Oh, a horror fan. No big."
Yet if I'm seen walking to a more secluded out-of-the-way porno store people witnessing it will flip out and think I'm a dangerous sexual predator or something.
I don't know why we're this way but we are. It baffles me too.
Well it kind of does turn you into a sexual predator. I was watching pornography the other day, and then all of a sudden I was masturbating on small children. It happens to everyone. I mean unleashing your sexual frustrations are much more harmful than keeping them in and letting them explode when you don't want them too, right?
I agree with the assertion we all need to calm our collective shit about sexual depictions in media, but I can see where Machocruz is coming from regarding their pointlessness oftentimes. That's not a reason to ban them though (though I could endorse some age restrictions etc.), that's merely a personal preference.
I think a dating sim with sexual positions could be amusing, though for how long I don't know. I definitely don't think it should be an illegal option though, especially when we depict acts of violence that most would be much less inclined to do naturally. Maybe video games could be good tools to teach about safe sex? Probably not, but I'd appreciate any humorous attempts. 
As for watching porn, as of January 1, 2014, I won't be joining you in lieu of a two year jail pentaly. My state legislature is not the best or brightest when it comes to resource management in terms of what law enforcement should be focusing on. Idiots. I never thought imagination would serve as a way of ... "sticking it" ... to the man, but here we are, two days out from U.S. Independence Day. Joy.
Edit: That last bit turns out is from a parody website. I only know of the Onion. I've been had. lol Sad that I thought that was real. I wouldn't necessarily put it past them.
What I really like over here in Aus is that it’s still not technically illegal to buy alcohol and give to a minor, any minor you like, without the parents knowledge! Talk about wrong priorities. I don’t get why violence is more acceptable than sex either, usually both parties enjoy sex more than a fight, unless it’s rape of course (or as some might say, a cuddle with a struggle)
But then there's Europe. Germany in particular used to be in the news all the time for banning games but I think it was always for violence. They don't seem to have a problem with sex though. I remember when I got to visit several European countries, like Germany and the Czech Republic, and you'd see all kinds of stuff while just walking around and shopping. There was a shop that did boob jobs that had before and after pictures in their window. I saw a jewelry store in Prague that had lifesize pictures of nude models wearing the store's necklaces. Nothing left to the imagination there. It struck me at the time that they were the opposite of us: Freaking out for violence instead of nudity/sex.
It may be a mantra I find myself repeating but context is everything and sex and/or violence can belong as long as there is a justification for how it serves the project (plot, themes).
I think violence has always been given a pass since we know its fake and the way that some people deal with it (such as laughter) means that we can develop defense mechanisms. You alluded to this in your blog but sex/nudity makes people feel vulnerable, insecure or uncomfortable. In America, there's this puritanical mindset that hasn't completely eroded away (if it ever will) and any entertainment medium that reaches teens or children will always been held to task for how they depict certain acts. It's the result of poor parenting, faulty content rating systems (e.g., the MPAA is and always will be a fucking joke) and aggressive ad campaigns that material not meant for kids eventually falls into their hands.
I grew up in a time before the Internet and while video games were still pretty young and considered toys (remember those days?) and my parents found my entertainment intake easier to monitor (also, they would talk to me about senstive material rather than just restrict access without question). These days, I don't know how parents do that.
In video games, violence sells more than sex. You know about the fate of a game that gets slapped with an Adults Only rating. You know that certain retailers won't carry a game with that rating. You know that games cost a lot to make and developers and publishers would like to turn a profit. I don't know the solution to this but it's going to take some more time before it happens.
Yep. Shitty parenting will be the cause of our dystopian future, I'm sure of it. I'd rather my kids see a depiction of a sexual act than an act of extreme violence though. I think parents prefer it the other way around because they can say violence isn't real. When it comes to sex, however, they actually have to talk to their kids, and as we know most parents don't want to put any actual effort into raising their children.
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