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Gaming Can Be Bad For You!


On 09/20/2013 at 01:34 PM by Halochief90

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So yeah, I’ve decided I’m not going to play FFXIV as much as I was before! The game is great, but it’s clear that when it gets to a point where I play a game up to six hours a day that I have some other issues going on. I’m not going to get into those problems, but basically without realizing it I was running from these problems by letting a game consume me.

Don’t get me wrong, games are a great form of escapism. If I’m angry, I might blast dudes in Gears of War because it lets me vent my frustrations on Locust instead of real people. Gaming is also a simply a great way to pass time when you’re not looking forward to that test or a day at work. However, while games are great for escaping problems, they also offer you no means of solving them. In fact, they sometimes enable me to avoid problems and struggle.

No matter how many hours I put into a game, troubles in life are not going to go away if I rely on games to avoid thinking about them. If I’m addicted, my mind will forever be stuck in the game until I take a step back and think about what I’ve been doing.

It’s not easy telling the one game that got me hooked “No” but I can’t let my mind get consumed like that again. In other words, I will still enjoy FFXIV but with short, controlled bursts. Like how I use the Retro-Lancer in Gears of War 3. Wait, I still got gaming on the brain!


 

Comments

BrokenH

09/20/2013 at 02:46 PM

This is sage advice. I think one of the big problems with gaming is we always defend our hobby yet do not acknowledge how it can in fact be bad for us. It takes courage to look that truth in the eye.

Halochief90

09/21/2013 at 09:31 PM

Yes, I love this hobby but there is a certain point where I have to acknowledge gaming has its flaws.

KnightDriver

09/20/2013 at 04:02 PM

These MMO's are so addictive I think because of the social component. I mean, I can play a game ten or more hours straight when I'm playing with a friend. Alone, I can't play more than a movie length, a couple hours, before I gotta get up and go outside and photograph some bugs or something.

Halochief90

09/21/2013 at 09:34 PM

I'm actually soloing most of the time I'm playing FFXIV. Though socialization is certainly one aspect of the addiction. There are also things like the vast amount of time you have to put in to make any progress in leveling, but at the same time a quest can be finished in a few minutes. "One more Quest! One more Quest!"

KnightDriver

09/22/2013 at 03:42 AM

On the AllGenGamers podcast this week (my favorite podcast btw), they talked about this film Life 2.0. It's about people getting addicted to Second Life. It's kinda similar to the MMO thing. It's on Netflix streaming right now I'm told.

Halochief90

09/22/2013 at 02:21 PM

I checked and it is on Netflix. I do have an adversion to Second Life as the game looks so awful from everything I've seen. Regardless, the subject matter is interesting so I might check it out.

KnightDriver

09/22/2013 at 07:14 PM

People have put a lot of work into Second Life recreating whole cities, but the lag and pop-in is apparently pretty bad.

jgusw

09/20/2013 at 05:00 PM

Gaming is just like anything else.  Too much of almost anything is bad for you.  I know a few people that game a bit too much.  I don't think 6hrs a day is a lot, but if you have other things you should be taking care of, then.... yeah, it's too much. Laughing

Halochief90

09/21/2013 at 09:36 PM

I agree. Though I do think addiction tends to be easier to fall into with gaming. Especially with MMOs which are fine-tuned for addiction!

Blake Turner Staff Writer

09/20/2013 at 08:00 PM

Yeah I spend way too many hours a day gaming... it's not good.

Halochief90

09/21/2013 at 09:38 PM

At least you are not in denial like I was!

avidacridjam

09/20/2013 at 08:51 PM

It's a sign that you're getting older. Not having all the time in the world and accepting that  limits what you do in your spare time. I love gaming but it sometimes takes a backseat to film or tv or sleep.

Halochief90

09/21/2013 at 09:41 PM

Indeed. Through the years things l have realized I'm not the hardcore gamer I was as a teenager. Every once in a while though a game comes along and that makes me forget that.

Keegs79

09/20/2013 at 09:25 PM

Priorities. If people put what is important first than gaming should be a problem no matter how much time you spend doing it. The same goes with any hobby. There is people who lounge around and watch too much tv and or movies. There are people that even do the same thing with books but its not frowned about because video games is an easy target.

Halochief90

09/21/2013 at 09:48 PM

I do think that games, especially MMOs, tend to bring out the addictive side in people more than books and movies usually do. However, for 99% of people that never becomes a major problem. The problem is people tend to stereotype gamers as basement dwellers which again is such a small amount of actual gamers (or readers/movie fans, etc.).

KnightDriver

09/22/2013 at 07:40 PM

The NPD reported an average of 13 hours a week of video gaming by Americans back in 2010 here: http://uk.gamespot.com//news/time-spent-gaming-on-the-rise-npd-6264092?

statisticbrain.com had a stat of 5 hours a day of TV watching for the average American here: http://www.statisticbrain.com/television-watching-statistics/ That's 35 hours a week! TV watchers got us gamers beat by a long way.

The most gaming I've done in a week was about 22 hours, most of that on the weekend.

Halochief90

09/23/2013 at 12:42 AM

13 hours a week sounds fair. Though that's still probably more than me for most weeks. 35 hours a week for TV though? Sounds sketchy. I always take statistics with a grain of salt as they are almost always reported as "fact" even though they rarely ever are specific about how the data was gathered and done with a very limited sample size.

KnightDriver

09/23/2013 at 02:08 AM

I read a book on statistics recently and you have to do questionaires with small samples. The trick is picking the right group that'll tell you accurate information about the larger group. It's impossible to question everyone. Or at least, it costs too much to do.

But I agree that stats are to be taken with a grain of salt, but that 5 hrs of tv a day sounds like something people in the mainstream would do to me.

Halochief90

09/23/2013 at 06:09 PM

Yes, if someone tries to say gamers play games too much you could always pull out those numbers. Especially if they themeselves are using statistics to back up their argument!

KnightDriver

09/24/2013 at 01:38 AM

Ha! Exactly. Take that you boob tubers!

Alex-C25

09/22/2013 at 10:03 PM

Yeah, anything in is bad when you use it too much. I like gaming, but there's also other priorities in life. Then again, I might be a bit hypocrite, as I spend whole days in my computer.....

Halochief90

09/23/2013 at 12:44 AM

The computer is pretty problably the worst addiction of them all. I don't know how many hours get sucked away on this thing.

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