This is sage advice. I think one of the big problems with gaming is we always defend our hobby yet do not acknowledge how it can in fact be bad for us. It takes courage to look that truth in the eye.
Gaming Can Be Bad For You!
On 09/20/2013 at 01:34 PM by Halochief90 See More From This User » |
So yeah, I’ve decided I’m not going to play FFXIV as much as I was before! The game is great, but it’s clear that when it gets to a point where I play a game up to six hours a day that I have some other issues going on. I’m not going to get into those problems, but basically without realizing it I was running from these problems by letting a game consume me.
Don’t get me wrong, games are a great form of escapism. If I’m angry, I might blast dudes in Gears of War because it lets me vent my frustrations on Locust instead of real people. Gaming is also a simply a great way to pass time when you’re not looking forward to that test or a day at work. However, while games are great for escaping problems, they also offer you no means of solving them. In fact, they sometimes enable me to avoid problems and struggle.
No matter how many hours I put into a game, troubles in life are not going to go away if I rely on games to avoid thinking about them. If I’m addicted, my mind will forever be stuck in the game until I take a step back and think about what I’ve been doing.
It’s not easy telling the one game that got me hooked “No” but I can’t let my mind get consumed like that again. In other words, I will still enjoy FFXIV but with short, controlled bursts. Like how I use the Retro-Lancer in Gears of War 3. Wait, I still got gaming on the brain!
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