I didn't post anything yesterday for a reason. It's a holiday for couples, and I didn't want to bother anyone with my whining and complaining. Yes, this is one of THOSE blogs. I urge you, please don't read if you don't want your day ruined with my pathetic tale of lost loves and broken hearts. That being said, I'm not a woman hater or anything. I just want to share why it is so hard for me on this particular day.
I dislike this holiday. It's a constant reminder of why being single sucks. Being alone isn't so bad - it's the constant commercialism that I don't like. Valentines Day is the reason why the term "Hallmark Holiday" came into being. Ads for chocolate, flowers, and jewelery bombard the airwaves for two or three weeks straight. You can't even go to the store without seeing red everywhere. I am so glad that annoyance is over. The day wasn't all that bad for me, though. Even though I caught a cold and spent the majority of the day in bed.
I think that my bad experiences with it also affect me. After my divorce, I fell deeply in love with a girl I had dated. Stupid me. Not only did she steal my heart, but she eventually tore my heart out. I confessed to her on a Valentines Day. Had bought her flowers and a card as well. But it didn't matter to her. Nothing I did or said mattered to her after she met that guy. After a couple more attempts of trying to reach her, we ended our friendship on bad terms... They probably have a family by now, and it's really hard for me to let her go. I feel like she was the one that got away, and I think about her every day, even though it's been two years already. I'm pretty sure that I'll never love anyone like that again.
I tried last year with another girl as well. I see now that I wasn't ready. We had a really nice time on our date, but after I went back to school, one of her "high school friends" came back into town. She dumped me for him. After they broke up a few months later, I tried with her again, but by then, she didn't even want me anymore. We still talk as friends sometimes, but she's still not interested in having a relationship with me.
I'm just sick of stupid bitches. I didn't even care to try this time, even though there a couple I like. It's just really hard to trust again. Why talk to someone if they're only going to break things off when something better comes along? It happens time and again. Or better yet, every time I try to talk to someone on a dating site, I get ignored. I'm just going to go ahead and delete my profile, because it's been almost six months now, and I haven't even had a date from there.
To sum it up, I give up. It's just not worth the heartache anymore.
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