"It was kinda funny the first 1,000 times..."
So yesterday’s blog was more of an angry outburst at The Hawkeye Initiative then I well constructed rant. I suppose I owe some of you a more reasonable less vitriolic follow up!
My first problem with the idealized versus sexualized debate is it’s based on a lie. Are you telling me a six pack stomach is 100% “male empowerment fantasy” and “attraction” never comes into that picture? I do not know what planet we are on now but in my day my female friends appreciated a healthy and muscled male physique.
Whenever people argue someone like Batman is “idealized” but not actually sexually appealing to women I have to cringe inside. Bruce is not “hawt” to women?! Are you kidding me?!
"What a roid-head! Or maybe he just lifts weights and keeps physically active. How "unattractive" amirite? Poor Randy,he's an abomination!"
Then of course there is the Marcus Felix rants. “He looks like a roided up monster!” the masses scream. Yeah, well I know women who like watching wrestling and I’m sure they salivate over how those guys look. Why is the peak of masculine athleticism considered “ugly” by popular culture? What the fuck is wrong with us as a society? Should men be atrophied, gangly, and weak instead?
"One of these looks "normal" and somewhat sexy and the other looks absurd and idiotic!"
The truth is men and women are in fact different and even during sex tend to have different roles. For example, women have extra curvy spines. It’s probably what gives them the ability to do that wicked butt strut and the reason their backs have a graceful arch. Because of the way women are shaped they can wear articles of clothing and get into physical positions that men simply cannot pull off. Furthermore, a woman’s body has evolved to handle child birth more efficiently. No, I’m not saying women need to stay at home and become baby factories! What I am saying is their bodies are designed to handle pregnancy, carry a child to term, and nurture said child when it emerges. That’s not “sexism”, it’s biology. Child-birth is no easy feat so yeah, I have nothing but unflinching respect for all moms!
In contrast us men usually have more upper body strength and we usually endure physical labor with less whining. Look, I’m not saying there are not exceptions, okay? I know women construction workers, women mechanics, and women loggers that can easily put me to shame! But in general men are stronger and tougher whereas women are more flexible and more dexterous! (Except when it comes to child birth. That’s the one area where women make us all look like complete wimps!) Like it or not , men are supposed to be more dominate during sex. Men are supposed to be builders, providers, warriors, and protectors. Some hyper sensitive sissies my not like reading this but it is the truth. Certainly there are female Doms and guys who prefer being submissive. But that’s because our less savage and more lax society has created an environment where we can explore new things without us being impaled by willy mammoth tusks and without getting eaten by saber-tooth tigers! Yet in times of hardship, recession, and desolation most men and most women tend to fall back into their original gender roles to survive.
And before it’s brought up, I know I personally fail to live up to nature’s code. I’m an artist (I prefer the term amateur illustrator!) and though I’ve done hard labor it never really sated a primal urge within me. While moving heavy logs and branches to the side of the road I was happy I was helping people but I realized it was not what I wanted my whole life to consist of. I did not think I was above the work. I simply knew it was not my personal calling.
To a point nature does show mercy to misfits like myself. Furthermore, I do not think nature has any problems with homosexuality. Realistically homosexuality has always existed amongst us. It may have hid during certain eras in history but it was never completely absent! In the end being gay or being trans (Someone who prefers fulfilling a gender role outside the one they were born with) will not shift things drastically out of balance so long as there are also plenty of straight folks willing to fuck too!
So, what does this have to do with The Hawkeye Initiative? Drawing men in sexy distorted female poses isn’t really “clever” or addressing anything that has not been thought of before. Furthermore, it’s getting ridiculous. Take the above picture of Emma for example. Yes, it’s sexy but I would not say it’s disproportionate (Besides for those huge chess pieces.) Yet you can bet your dollar Hawkeye is already being drawn in that position! And why? Emma “is” a seductress. She “is” a manipulator. The above picture is entirely honest with who The White Queen is. Guess what? There are differences in gender and what is “sexy” when relating to women may not be “sexy” when relating to men. (Or vice versa) I “like” the fact men and women are unique from each other. My advice? Have a good cry “Hawkie-activists” then take a prescription of “get the fuck over it”!
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