I have to be with a gamer, Ive dated non gamers and it jsut doesnt work. I play games has a hobby to much for a non gamer to sync in my life well. I also have my other hobbies like reading and writing that for some odd reason a gamer seems to be more connecting then a non gamer with. Im currently dating a gamer and he is amazing. He treats me right and never trys to bring me down unlike my previous relationship which was horriable which by the way, he was a non gamer type. So its either your a gamer or its a no go for me.