Let's not forget what Sony did to consumers with the PS3 at launch. They literally said in their press conference that you should go get two jobs to get this console. I bet you forgave them for that insulting anti-consumer statement right? This seems a little Sony biased and spiteful but altogether your thoughts aren't irrelevant obviously, we need to keep in mind what these companies do.
You're giving Sony more credit than they're worth too. It's likely the only reason they went against Microsoft's stances was because they saw the backlash they were getting. If Xbox One's policies went over smoothely you can bet thay Sony would've ponied up right along side them so they could make as much money as possible by cutting out used games and physical media. These companies WANT physical media to become the secondary method of consumption and over time it'll likely end up that way regardless. Another reason you shouldn't get ahead of yourself is because I think the reason Microsoft changed their policies is simply because Sony forced their hand, not consumer outcrying unfortunately. Sony's policies and price likely weren't solid until right after the Microsoft press conference. They were keeping their cards hidden and waiting to see what they could capitialize on the most. MS was pretty cowardly and didn't mention the unpopular policies so Sony went ahead and put them right up in the forefront of the conference. MS announced a $500 price, so Sony went with the $400 one to capitalize and it worked out beautifully. At the end of the day both of these companies have boned consumers before and developers as well.
I'm happy both companies are on the same page now at least, it makes for a better console war and better competition I'd think. I'm leaning towards the PS4 still but now that the Xbox One doesn't require always-online I think that it's a much more appealing product than it used to be.