Correct on both counts, which is why I admit this is a biased and nonscientific question. People certainly have autonomy not to fall victim to any type of addiction as well as most people are capable of becoming addicted to something. The ubiquity of addictive mechanisms in games is still apparent in video games though, I would say.
And if you lead a normal life and can balance gaming with more important things you're not really "addicted," since that term is used mostly when you're so obsessed with something it deteriorates your normal livelihood.


