Dude, I'm so with you. The first woman I ever loved was voloptous and had curves. I thought she was friggin gorgeous but I'm sure she felt pressured by the media & entertainment industry to some extent. I've seen some gorgeous women flat out tell me they're "fat" and it really breaks my heart.
Not everyone should be a size 2. Sure, for women already lithe and short that's fine. But not every human being is short and lithe. If I was a size 2 I'd be in seriously screwed up shape. My muscles would be so deteriorated I probably couldn't move at that point. lol.