It has been great here,Peter! Surprisingly, I still think I'm purging off some of the "icky malice" from my 1up days. (Places like Kotaku didn't help either)
At least for me, 1up was a very love/hate affair. It was wonderful in some ways (The community) but kind of miserable in others (Bob Mackey).
But you're right. People are set in their ways and bitching rarely changes anything. We all have to come to new revelations & personal growth on our own.