I feel you! I think "communities" are all a bit tribal. Aka, outsiders have to "prove something" to the collective. With pixlbit I was lucky on account a lot of ppl here befriended me when they were also still at 1up so there was no awkward adjustment phase. Then again, I haven't seen much "harshing of noobs" happening at Pixlbit either! What a rare wonderful place this is!