
The Japan hate kind of pisses me off, too. Yeah, people like different stuff, but it seems like folks in gaming forums go out of their way to be nasty about Japanese video games, and the people who enjoy them. No other country gets picked on this much, although I think some of these gamers think of Canada, Poland, the UK, and other places in North America and Europe as a bunch of "America Juniors" when discussing "Western games".
Many of my favorite games in this generation, like Valkyria Chronicles, Ni no Kuni, Bayonetta, Yakuza, and Nintendo's stuff, are fine examples of Japanese game design in the HD era. I also own a lot of very fine games on the DS and PSP, On the other hand, I've also enjoyed Fallout 3, New Vegas, XCOM, Mortal Kombat and Bioshock Infinite - all made with pride in the USA - very much. There's been more content from the US in my gaming library than at any time since the early 90's, when games like the Ultima series and SimCity reigned supreme for me outside of the arcades, and there will continue to be room for both East and West on my gaming shelves.
As far as sexuality in Japanese games goes - how about all those ass-shots of Miranda and her body-paint uniform in Mass Effect, yeah? How about all the fan-made nude/sex mods for every PC game under the sun?