There's definitely a double standard between games and movies. Remember when Eidos showed off the scene in the new Tomb Raider that could have been a rape scene. Huge public outcry, even though there was no rape even if you lost! And then you can have a movie with half a dozen pointless rapes and no one cares. The problem, I think, is that the nongaming public still thinks games are just for kids, and who would put a rape scene in something meant for kids?